Parenting Styles
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https://doi.org/10.55707/ds-po.v38i1.8Keywords:
raising children, parenting styles, parents, child, primary schoolAbstract
Raising children depends on the parenting style. There are three main styles of parenting: permissive, authoritarian and authoritative. We tried to find out which parenting style parents choose for their children in Year 3 of primary school. The results of the research, in which 968 parents participated, are alarming. In Slovenia, 52 per cent of parents use the permissive parenting style. Even though the authoritative style is highlighted in many studies as the most appropriate, the least parents use it. Some parents use the authoritarian parenting style as well. Parents stress many problems which they face in bringing up their children, while on the other hand almost a third of parents would not change their parenting style. We believe the reason lies in the fast pace of life, as parents do not spend enough time with their children. They use their physical absence as an excuse for letting their children do whatever they want. We may even be sarcastic and say that their child is not their top priority. They lack the time to set limits and implement clear rules. They also do not have time to talk and to teach their children to take responsibility for their actions.
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